|Jimmy and Heather Novak|
Then after about eight or ten weeks of complete hell, I met his wife, and the kooky guy who was at least reliably nice to me morphed into an amazing guy I wanted to stay friends with for the rest of my life. I suppose you might think it odd that meeting Jimmy's wife made such a difference... I can only say that some couples truly seem greater than the sum of their parts. Heather brought out all the honor, integrity and dignity I'd seen hints of in Jimmy. I later learned that she has that effect on nearly everyone she comes into contact with. During some of the hardest, bleakest days of my life, Heather and Jimmy cared for me. I was pregnant, alone, and my mother was dying in a far away land. I was so ill with my pregnancy that I couldn't bear to cook for myself. Jimmy and Heather cooked for me. They brought me to their home, cooked and talked and... just made me feel like a beloved member of the family. Jimmy's my brother because he treated me like a sister. Heather's my sister because she treated me the same, and because she gave from her heart such beautiful lessons in action about how to be a loving partner by her treatment of Jimmy, how to be a good mom by her treatment of her daughters... how to be a loving friend through her treatment of everyone around her. I am as strong as I am today in part because Heather loves me, and gives so freely of her heart. I draw tremendous strength from my friendship and sisterhood with her.
Every now and then we catch glimpses of enlightened souls moving among us. These are two that I have been privileged to know for over fifteen years. Jimmy and Heather? I love you guys. Thank you for saving my life. Over and over again. I hope that everyone reading this has a Jimmy and a Heather in their lives.